Thursday, November 29, 2007

Scrapbooking

Last night I did my Thanksgiving scrapbook pages. Just thought I'd share with you. I had fun making the "2 little turkeys" page :) Indeed Jacob and Ben are turkeys!






Sunday, November 18, 2007

Taking the plunge

If you read our blog regularly, you know that we have been regular attenders at Sherwood Baptist Church down the road in Albany. We love our Sunday School class, Jacob has a great time in the nursery, Tammy serves as a babysitter for the movie we're working on, and I play tuba (and sometimes trombone) in the church orchestra/band/whatever you want to call us. So, we decided we should probably join the church. They accepted Tammy on a statement of faith, but I wasn't allowed to do that. You see, it's a Southern Baptist church and, as the name implies, they are kind of picky on baptism. Tammy was baptized by immersion at age 9, but my baptism by sprinkling didn't count.

They told me a few months ago that if I wanted to join the church, I would have to be baptized by immersion. So, I had to decide what to do. Tammy didn't want to join without me, so that made it a little more interesting. I took my time and put a lot of thought and study into it, and I thought some of you might be interested to read about that process.

First of all, it is important to point out that baptism does not equal salvation. In other words, just because you're baptized, that doesn't mean you are saved. Likewise, no baptism does NOT mean no salvation.

Growing up, I rarely (if ever) saw an adult baptism. I witnessed dozens (if not hundreds) of infant baptisms. But many of those infants were brought in by parents who were almost complete strangers to the church. They came for their baby's baptism, and then we would never see them in church again, except maybe at Easter. They probably claimed to be "C&E Christians" (Christmas & Easter), which I would argue means they weren't Christians at all.

And so I had to look at a comparison between infant baptism and believer's baptism. Infant baptism is exactly what it says -- you are baptized as an infant. Believer's baptism occurs when you are old enough to make your own decision for Christ. A quick Google-ing of "baptism" reveals that this topic is not an easy one to decide. Here's the arguments that were made to me, and how I dealt with each one as I made my decision:

1. All the baptisms described in the Bible are by immersion in a body of water.
-> When we lived in Rincon, we attended (but never joined)
Grace Community Church. It was a great place, and we learned a lot while we were there. When we first started there, we attended a class that introduced us to the church, its history, structure, and beliefs. In that class, Pastor Wesley said something that made a lot of sense to me at the time. He said that when the Bible wasn't clear on something, he'd rather lean towards the conservative side. His example was that there are no examples of women leading churches in the New Testament. He said that doesn't mean it's wrong for women to be elders or pastors. But, since we are uncertain based on the Biblical example, Grace Community Church only allowed men to serve as elders "just to be on the safe side." I'm sure that's not a popular thing to say, but it makes sense. In the same way, since there is no Biblical example of infant baptism or of baptism by sprinkling, believer's baptism (by immersion) seems to be the right thing.

Ephesians 1:4-6 says that we were predestined for salvation before the creation of the world. So, shouldn't infant baptism be allowed as a celebration of God's love for all of us, even when we were too young to make our own decision of faith? Maybe. But there are no Biblical examples of such baptisms.

2. The word "baptism" is a transliteration from the Greek "baptizo," which means "to dip; to immerse."
-> This argument wasn't very convincing for me, mostly because there are as many arguments for it as there are against it. I'm not enough of a Greek scholar or historian to really understand this and make my own decision about it.

3. Baptism is an act of obedience.
-> This is based on the
Great Commission, Matthew 28:19. I thought I had this covered, since I was baptized. And let's not forget that I did make a public proclamation of faith as a teenager through Confirmation. So by itself, this didn't convince me. But what if, by denying the opportunity to be baptized as an adult, I was being disobedient? That bothered me (based on the logic described in #1).

And so after several weeks of study and thought, I decided I needed to be baptized as an adult - to publicly proclaim my faith in Jesus. But I was waiting for the right moment. It didn't feel right. But when I heard the argument below, I knew I couldn't wait any longer.

4. Salvation and repentence are decisions. They are not feelings. They are choices.
-> We had a Sunday School lesson several weeks ago on
Luke 13. In that passage, Jesus says we must repent or perish. It struck me during that lesson that repentance is a choice. Ever since then, it seems that every time I opened my Bible, went to Sunday School, or listened to a sermon, I heard something about making a conscious choice. (Maybe God was trying to get through to me???) We must choose to honor God in our daily lives -- at work, in our marriages, and at church. When I examined myself, I found that I was often making the choice to honor myself. It wasn't on purpose, because I wanted to be a good Christian, set a good example at school, etc., but truthfully, I was only doing that when it was convenient. When I felt like it, I would honor God; the rest of the time, it was all about me. So I chose to change my behavior and to start honoring God in everything.

And so, as a part of that choice, I decided to go ahead with baptism and to join the church. Our Associate Pastor, John Spencer, baptized me at the evening service. Tammy and Jacob were up there with me. After the service, we were presented as new members.

If you made it this far into the blog, you're probably wondering why I went into all this detail. I guess this is my way of describing a difficult decision process. I don't want to discount my baptism as an infant. Not to mention that growing up in the church is an important part of my Christian experience as an adult. At the same time, I believe that I have to be obedient to God, and this was the right way to do that. Trust me, I did not take it lightly! I did a lot of reading and a lot of studying.

By the way, for those of you who may be wondering, Jacob has not been baptized. We're going to let him make a decision for himself when he's old enough. But you can bet we'll be teaching him and leading him towards his own relationship with Jesus (Proverbs 22:6).

the turkeys are on their way

Tonight Hank and I made these cute turkey cookies. They were a lot of fun to make. I figured we should take a picture in case they don't survive the road trip to KY tomorrow night.



Saturday, November 17, 2007

UK sux

Well, looks like UK isn't going to get it done for us today against Georgia, thanks to a second-half offensive meltdown.

Meanwhile, the LCHS Trojans lost last night. I honestly don't remember the score. I'm told we had the furthest distance to travel of any team in the state. It sure felt like it, especially on the way home.

Can't wait to see everyone in a few days!!!

Monday, November 12, 2007

We're big Kentucky fans (for two weeks)

Queep, this is just for you, from my favorite Gator website:

By ARNOLD FELICIANO
Sun sports editor
12:24 am, November 12, 2007


While Florida awaits its fate in the SEC East division race, the Gators will be involved in another race — for the Heisman Trophy.

No. 14 Florida (7-3, 5-3 in SEC) needs a loss by both Georgia and Tennessee to force a three-way tie, which would put the Gators in the SEC title game. Georgia closes its SEC schedule Saturday against visiting Kentucky. Tennessee hosts Vanderbilt on Saturday before closing its regular season Nov. 24 at Kentucky.

"We're big Kentucky fans," Florida coach Urban Meyer said Sunday.
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Yep, we're big Kentucky fans!
The interesting part is that if Tennessee somehow manages to lose to both Vanderbilt AND Kentucky, then Georgia wins the SEC East. So, GOOOOOOO CATS!! (But I'd still like to see Vandy make it to a bowl game.)

In other news: Our football team ACTUALLY WON on Friday night! So we're off to Augusta this Friday for a playoff game. 4 1/2 hours on a school bus just to get there ... I can hardly wait.

Sunday, November 11, 2007

great weekend!

We had a fun weekend. Friday night I took Jacob to the last home game and we had a great time. Then, Saturday morning I got up early and drove to a friend's house and had a yard sale. Made $25 - not great - but better than nothing. Saturday night Hank and I went on a date!! It's been so long - I really don't remember the last time we went out without Jacob. Our friend Amanda came over to hang out with Jacob and we went to Red Lobster and ate till we hurt - then went to Theater Albany to see "And Then There Were None" - Agatha Christie. It was a fun murder mysterie. 3 hours long!! After eating all the food, I did have trouble in Act 2 staying awake - but somehow I still managed to follow it all :) The weather this weekend was beautiful as well. It's finally cooling off and feeling like fall. One more week of school and then we're off to "Turkentucky"

Speaking of KY -Laura I stumbled on another cheerleading show. We are getting free channels this weekend and the network is called "Fuse" - they have a show called "Cheerleader U" and it follows the KY Wildcat cheerleaders. They had a marathon on so I watched several.

That's about it. Our church is 50% completed in it's filming of our next movie. Sadly though, tonight one of the crew passed away. A guy from Orlando was one of our film crew and he was traveling back up here. He had a car accident and died several hours later. His wife is expecting their first child. Very sad news. Pray for the Monk family this night.

Until the next blog....

T

Saturday, November 3, 2007

Weekend

41-0 is not much fun to watch, let me tell you. I realized at the end of the game that we had not played the fight song AT ALL. When we're not scoring, we try to play the fight song (or at least part of it) for first downs, big plays, etc. But there weren't many of those, either.

So, our football team is now 1-8 for the season, 0-2 in region play. Fortunately, the band had a great show at halftime and did a nice job in the stands. But I feel for the football team. They're very frustrated right now. I really hope they win next week. It will be our last home game of the season, and it's senior night.

So that was Friday for me. Tammy spent the evening at a marriage retreat hosted by our Sunday School class. The evening included a prime rib dinner and cheesecake for dessert. I had hamburgers from the school cafeteria. Who got the better deal there????

This morning we got up and went to the second session of the marriage retreat. Then we came home and watched the GATORS absolutely destroy Vanderbilt. Then we went to the fair (see Jacob's blog for details). That's a pretty busy day for us, yet it was relaxing.

Tomorrow's plans: Church, football, nap....not necessarily in that order.

Hope everyone's having a great weekend!